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Who Settles For Bad Fruit?
Feb 16th
Who settles? What kind of person settles? Do you settle?
Be honest. Chances are that any area in your life that you are unhappy with, is an area where you have settled for less than what you believe you deserve. Or perhaps you may have settled for believing that you deserve less than what you do deserve.
That’s right, you get to choose what and how much you deserve in this life. And you definitely get to choose what you believe about what you deserve. Take a look at your beliefs. What do you settle for right now? In what area of your life do you deserve more? And why do you deserve more? Is it a right that you have as a human being, or have you done something to deserve it? Here’s a neat thought: We are all created equal, right? So then, we all deserve the same as everyone else, right?
So, Happiness? You deserve it. Love? You deserve it. Peace, and Joy, and Health, and Abundance? You deserve it.
Now that we’ve taken care of those limiting beliefs, by replacing them with beneficial beliefs, let’s take a look at why people don’t have what they deserve: It’s because people settle for less than they deserve.
Do you see a vicious cycle here? People don’t have, because they believe they don’t deserve to have, so they set up their lives in such a way as to keep them from getting the things that they don’t think they deserve to have.
First change your beliefs about what you deserve, and then stop settling for anything less than you deserve.
Want relationships that are drama free? Stop settling for those relationships. Be better than that. Persist until you find the relationships that you deserve.
Want more money in your bank account? Stop settling for the circumstances that keep you in your present condition.
Do you want to be healthy and vibrant and full of energy? Stop settling for feeling like a run down, overweight, flesh eater.
See the pattern emerging? In order to stop settling and achieve the results you want and deserve, a LifeStyle Change is required. If you want to be healthy, than going on a diet will never work. You have to live a healthy lifestyle. If you want abundance, you must live an abundant lifestyle. If you want loving relationships, you must live a loving lifestyle.
You can’t grow good fruit from a bad tree. You have to have a good tree to grow good fruit. The fruit comes from the tree, so if you don’t like the fruit of your life, heal the tree, don’t try to heal the fruit.
Stop settling for bad fruit.
Build A Temple To Achieve Your Goals
Jan 15th
The Christ told us that our bodies were a Living Temple, a place wherein God could reside. Let’s use this as an example for our goals in this life.
1. Are our goals living or dead?
Consider what you want in life, is the end goal worth having? Is it alive, will it bring vibrancy and light to your life? What good is it to have everything you ever wanted, only to find out that the price you paid to get there was too great? If you’re not happy on the path to your Happiness, then you’re probably on the wrong path. Make sure what you want is indeed, what you want.
2. What is our Blueprint?
As any builder can tell you, if you don’t know what the building is supposed to look like, then you can’t build it. Who or what are you modeling your goals after?
This is not the place to be cheap or modest… Shoot for the moon here. Find the best at what you want and devour everything you can find about them and what they did to achieve the thing you want. An example… if you want to be successful in real estate, don’t model yourself after the agent from Century 21, model yourself after Donald Trump… if you want to play in the NBA, don’t model yourself after your high school coach, model yourself after Michael Jordan.
Don’t mistake what I’m saying though, you can still learn a lot from the high school coach and the local real estate agent, in fact, that’s a great place to start, but what I’m saying is pick a Blueprint of Perfection for whatever goal you may have.
3. How is a Temple built?
Here’s where most people fall away… It’s built one stone at a time. You create your body one cheeseburger or one vegetable at a time… you wanna know why people are dying all around you? Because they eat flesh that is dead… and as we all learned as children, you are what you eat, and one dead stone after another, they have created a temple of death around them.
In the same way, you create your goal one step or mini-goal at a time. You’re not going to become a millionaire, or an enlightened being, or an amazing lover and spouse and parent overnight. Some people are able to work faster than others. It depends on where you are when you begin. Some have more natural resources than you might… which is why there’s no time like right now to begin.
Where Is Your Bailout Money?
Jan 9th
It begs the question, what’s really going on here?…
They’re giving away millions of tax payers dollars… enough to where they could give every person in the US a million dollars each, and why isn’t that money going to the people?
Well my brother has argued that if everyone were suddenly millionaires, no one would work, and inflation would be insane… and that may be true, but let’s think for a moment about what we would all do if money wasn’t king… if we all didn’t need money.
My counter argument to this is why not pay out the million dollars to each US citizen as monthly payments, in such an amount as to keep everybody working (which is really all this is about, keeping us enslaved to money)…
Or why don’t we pay off everyone’s personal debt with the bailout money? The system would come crashing down that’s why… All the little worker bees (that’s you and me) would suddenly be free… Oh no! what’s going to happen to the honey production? How will our hives get built? What about the Queen? Who’s going to protect, and provide, and feed her?
We are not a Hive species… we can be if we want, but I think we are all happiest when we are who we were created by God to be… and that is the Children of God.. literally, sons and daughters of the Creator and independently Sovereign Beings. Sovereign, do you remember what that word means? Are you beginning to remember what it feels like?
It’s been a long time since we were domesticated into what we are today… Let’s face the sad truth that most of us couldn’t even feed ourselves if we wanted to. We think food comes from a store, or a plastic bag. We think of Nature as being dirty, and a harsh environment… something to be scrubbed off of us as soon as we get back out of it.
Let’s consider where we are right now in Human existence, which is at a cross roads… will we continue down our path which has us heading for worse environmental conditions… to the point where we could end up with an environment like the moon, or Mars, and we would all be living in giant malls (which some marketer would probably call a space station or some such thing)… or will we clean up our environment and work with it to create a Garden of Eden on the earth? We possess the technology (i.e. knowledge + tools) to do both, and we’re at a beautiful place to choose which path we all want to head down.
We have to help wake people up so that they can choose for themselves instead of having the advertisements choose for them. A pattern interrupt, if you will. Talk with people, friends, family… don’t be scared to discuss the path that Humanity is on. And together, we can create for ourselves The Golden Path, without the need for a Tyrant like Leto to do it for us 
Don’t Get Drowned Out
Dec 12th
In a world that is over saturated with everything… from music, to the internet, to cars, to you-name-it… How can you make what you do stand out?
My good friend, Universo Pereira, of Red Carpet Rats, and I were discussing this in a round about way the other night… There are a million different companies all trying to sell the same thing, so what is it that makes the various products stand out?
For sure, one of the main things is marketing… how the product is sold and to whom, and all that… But let’s talk about the other main thing… Because marketing can still be duplicated, so what really sets you apart? How you make the product and why.
Reasons for Creation
Why are you creating this product (whatever it may be)? Look at your motivating factors.
Sure, money is going to be in there somewhere, but how high is it on your list? Chances are if it was the first thing out of your mouth, then you might experience some problems standing out from the crowd.
I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with doing something just for the money, providing your happy doing it, and it’s not illegal or harming anyone else… The only problem I see with it, is That’s what everybody else is doing too!
Not to mention, what happens if you don’t end up with the money you wanted? If you’re creating your product for the right reasons, then you’re still happy no matter how much money you have.
Stop chasing the money and let the money come to you
If you don’t break the invisible hold that the desire for money has on you, then you will be a slave to it for the rest of your life. This is why millions of people around the world hate their lives: because they hate their jobs. But they keep going to work so they can have money, because after all, that’s all they are after in the first place and subconsciously they know it and that’s why they can’t respect themselves, and who can like someone they can’t respect?
So how do you do this?
You do something that you would be happy doing, even if you never got rich doing it. And you focus more on giving value and providing service, than on making money.
Money comes as a result of providing value to people’s lives, and it will set you apart from the crowd that is only chasing that quick buck.
Even if your products are exactly the same, the one created with joy and happiness and a desire to give the buyer’s life value will stand out in the sea of consumerism.
True Love is rare, and that’s how you don’t get drowned out!
Think about it…
