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Apr 3rd
Have you ever been so worn out that everything in your life seems mundane or unimportant? No matter what you do, you just can’t get going again?
An abundant source of energy is a must-have to live an enjoyable life and to contribute to the joy of others. When you’re tired, you become more easily irritated and stressed out, which leads to poor relationships and poor health. Left unchecked, it’s all too easy to end up asking what went wrong, with the pieces of what used to be your life scattered all around you. Beside all that, let’s just face it — being run down Sucks!
So what are some ways that you can protect your energy levels?
1. No more coffee. The same goes for energy drinks. 99% of so called energy drinks aren’t actually giving your body energy, they are just stimulating your nervous system. The end result is usually that your body becomes more stressed out and unbalanced and tired. You can’t drug your way out of a problem that is caused by drugs.
2. Eat raw fruits and vegetables. An overwhelming amount of our energy is spent just digesting the cooked foods that we eat. There is a reason you get sleepy and sluggish after you eat a meal. It’s because your body is summoning all available energy to digest the substances you’ve just put into it. Raw food has enzymes in it that help your stomach digest it, thus giving you more energy, not taking energy away. As a plus, you’ll get much more nutrients from raw food, so you won’t have to eat as many calories, and eating less will give you more available energy and extend your life as well.
3. Get more sleep. This is kind of obvious, but all too often we just medicate our way through this with our coffee and red bulls. When you are tired, sleep. If for some reason, you can’t, see above and below.
4. Avoid negativity. This includes negative people. There are some people, you might even call them your friends, that all they do is suck the life energy out of you. They constantly complain and whine about every little thing. You might even be one of those people. All of this negativity zaps your energy faster than running a marathon. Don’t believe me? Try avoiding these people for a week and see how you feel. You don’t have to be snotty about it, but whenever they open their mouths and what they’re saying isn’t positive, just be somewhere else instead. If you’re the negative person, then try avoiding you! Every time you say or think something negative, be somewhere else instead
5. Exercise. This seems counter-intuitive, but I promise you it works like magic. The more active you are, the more energy you have available and the better you will sleep at night (thus giving you more energy again). I always hear on this one: “I just don’t have time to go to the gym or workout.” Blah, blah, blah. First of all, I wouldn’t recommend you ever go to the gym to workout, especially when you could do it for free and get some fresh air while you’re at it. Secondly, you have just as much time as everyone else in the world. Stop making excuses, you poor little victim, you. ;( (Please read number 4 again, if this victim is you).
The fastest most effective exercises you can do are at home with no equipment. That’s right! You don’t need any equipment at all. You remember what a push-up is right? There are even a hundred different ways to do them, so you never have to get bored either. Throw in some sit-ups, and some squats and you’ve just done a whole body workout in two and a half minutes (if you don’t break in between exercises). That’s a commercial break. Maybe you need a gentler work out? You can do yoga, tai chi, the five tibetan rites, ride a bike, or just go for a walk. Don’t think about exercising, just do it.
Remember, if you’re ever going to take over the world, or the equivalent — raise your kids, then you need to have the instantly available energy to do it. There is no quick fix for constant, steady energy, the only way to have it in your life is to live a lifestyle that cultivates it. Dream that lifestyle, and then make it real. You deserve it.
Dec 18th
Perhaps you’re familiar with the Taoist saying that “soft is stronger than hard”…
To recognize the truth of the saying we need only look to nature. Water will outlast rock, the blade of grass will bend in the strong wind whereas the stiff tree will fall down.
What is it that stuntmen and bikers say to do when crashing? Go limp and completely relax. In other words, be soft.
It is the things with the most rigid, un-giving structures that break easiest, such as glass.
Where are you hard in your life?
Have you ever noticed that laid back person who it seems that everything in life just comes to him? Do you find yourself being a little too rigid sometimes, even for your own liking?
Instead of trying to be the rock in your life, try to be the water. Flow. It’s a valuable skill to possess and one which will help you in all areas of your life.
Think about it…
Dec 12th
In a world that is over saturated with everything… from music, to the internet, to cars, to you-name-it… How can you make what you do stand out?
My good friend, Universo Pereira, of Red Carpet Rats, and I were discussing this in a round about way the other night… There are a million different companies all trying to sell the same thing, so what is it that makes the various products stand out?
For sure, one of the main things is marketing… how the product is sold and to whom, and all that… But let’s talk about the other main thing… Because marketing can still be duplicated, so what really sets you apart? How you make the product and why.
Reasons for Creation
Why are you creating this product (whatever it may be)? Look at your motivating factors.
Sure, money is going to be in there somewhere, but how high is it on your list? Chances are if it was the first thing out of your mouth, then you might experience some problems standing out from the crowd.
I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with doing something just for the money, providing your happy doing it, and it’s not illegal or harming anyone else… The only problem I see with it, is That’s what everybody else is doing too!
Not to mention, what happens if you don’t end up with the money you wanted? If you’re creating your product for the right reasons, then you’re still happy no matter how much money you have.
Stop chasing the money and let the money come to you
If you don’t break the invisible hold that the desire for money has on you, then you will be a slave to it for the rest of your life. This is why millions of people around the world hate their lives: because they hate their jobs. But they keep going to work so they can have money, because after all, that’s all they are after in the first place and subconsciously they know it and that’s why they can’t respect themselves, and who can like someone they can’t respect?
So how do you do this?
You do something that you would be happy doing, even if you never got rich doing it. And you focus more on giving value and providing service, than on making money.
Money comes as a result of providing value to people’s lives, and it will set you apart from the crowd that is only chasing that quick buck.
Even if your products are exactly the same, the one created with joy and happiness and a desire to give the buyer’s life value will stand out in the sea of consumerism.
True Love is rare, and that’s how you don’t get drowned out!
Think about it…
Dec 9th
As most of us learned at a young age, there are certain physical laws that seem to govern the running of the cosmos. One of those laws is that, for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
Inertia
An object in motion tends to stay in motion, unless acted upon by an outside force. Again just a variation of action/reaction, but Inertia can be a wonderful thing if it’s applied to your life in a positive manner.
Another way to state the law of inertia would be to say that once the big ball gets rolling, it’s fairly easy (requires little energy) to keep it rolling. Now replace the big ball with success in your life. Once you get success going for you, it’s a chain reaction, and success just seems to happen all by itself. It requires hardly any energy to keep going, as opposed to the energy it took to get going in the first place. Remember how we talked about people are attracted to success?
Action Vs. Re-action
I believe one of the major reasons, that people never get what they want in life is because they never take the time to think actively or do actively or anything actively. Everything starts with a thought though, so let’s start there too.
How much time you spend thinking actively, as opposed to reactively? How much time do you waste contemplating the thoughts of someone else? This is how the masses can be led around like sheep, by advertising, and ‘leaders’, it’s because no one thinks for themselves, and the system is set up to keep you from doing just that.
All day long you’re bombarded with things that you react to, but do you spend anytime or energy doing some acting of your own? What are you uniquely contributing to humanity?
So here’s the homework for today
You want success? If it doesn’t directly contribute to your ability to act on what you want, then stop reacting to it. All the distractions that you think make up who you are… just leave them right where you find them or take action to keep them from happening again.
It’s like a dog that just won’t leave you alone… I’m sure you’ve had this happen to you before, you’re sitting down, relaxing, watching a movie or talking with friends and the dog wants attention. So he takes action, he goes over to you and starts licking your hand, or gently biting it in the way that most dogs do when they want something. The thing is, you don’t want to give attention to the dog, you want to continue doing what you were doing. Now you can do one of two things… You can act or you can react.
Ignoring the dog will usually work (this would be not-reacting which is a form of action when consciously done), but patience is required and for sake of argument, let’s say this dog is very persistent.
You can give in and pet the dog, but all this does is make the dog want more, and so all of a sudden you have a bigger drain on your energy.
Or you can take action that will prevent the dog from interrupting you (training him to lie down and not beg for attention or putting him outside) Whatever the fix might be, taking action and not reacting, is the only way to make sure that you don’t end up doing the dog’s bidding as opposed to your own.
So spend a few minutes every day when you wake up, thinking actively about what you want, and if it doesn’t bring a smile to your face and joy and peace to your heart, then what you want isn’t worth having, or you’re in it just for the money which will never make you happy or content.
THink About IT…