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Dec 28th
Quick post… Ran across this the other day in researching psychic children: “Thought follows attention. Attention follows intention.”
Dec 23rd
No clear cut theme today, except for Christmas I guess… Not even sure what to say about all I’ve been thinking about. I’m sure something will stumble out…
I find it strange that we get so stressed out at this time of the year, the cause of which is a holiday which is supposed to be fun and joyful, where we wish peace on earth and good will toward Man. Is that what this thing we’ve been doing is? Peace and Good-will?
We really have let ourselves be led around by the leash, most of us not even realizing there’s a collar on us. But we’ll get more into the domestication of man after new years.
Let’s make today actually be about peace on earth. What would that entail?
For starters, we would probably have to stop killing things… you know — people, animals, the Earth.
Do we really desire to kill those terrorists? Or is it just what we’ve been led to believe… That we should be murderously upset over the death of our people, but not at the death of the rest of the world’s? Why aren’t we that upset over the millions of Americans that die every day because they’re fat, or because of lung cancer from smoking a pack a day, or from diabetes? All these things can be fixed with a healthy lifestyle, but people won’t do it, they are effectively killing themselves, and we aren’t sending troops to Mcdonald’s or the White House, are we?
What about the animals? Have you ever brought the hatchet or the knife down and killed your own food? Coward. Truth is, you don’t even know if what you’re eating is real meat or something that was cloned in a vat of chemicals, do you? If someone dropped off a lifetime’s supply of cows to you and said, ‘here you go, you can’t eat free for the rest of your life, you just have to slaughter them by yourself.’ How long do you think you would go on eating meat? No one wants to think about killing their food, ‘that’s morbid’, they say. But we’re all to willing to let someone else do our dirty work. (just like the government, with our troops and our ‘wars’ on terror, and drugs, and whatever else)
And then what about this grand old space ship we live on called Earth? Do we stop and question where the things we have come from, or how they got to us? Rarely… The amount of plastics that we use daily is ridiculous, and it doesn’t biodegrade either, and we store our food and water in it, which leeches particles of the plastic out into the food and then into our bodies where our bodies treat it like estrogen, and we wonder why couples can’t conceive and why cancer is so rampant in the last 50 years. And to be sure, it’s only one of the causes, but think about how much plastic is around you right now…
You know what, I don’t find it that strange that we get so stressed out. After thinking about why we’re so stressed, I’m a little stressed myself… So what can we do to bring peace on earth and good will toward men?
I want you to answer this as you would if you were a little kid… In fact, even better than that, is go ask a child what we should do, and post it down below.
Think about it…
Dec 18th
Perhaps you’re familiar with the Taoist saying that “soft is stronger than hard”…
To recognize the truth of the saying we need only look to nature. Water will outlast rock, the blade of grass will bend in the strong wind whereas the stiff tree will fall down.
What is it that stuntmen and bikers say to do when crashing? Go limp and completely relax. In other words, be soft.
It is the things with the most rigid, un-giving structures that break easiest, such as glass.
Where are you hard in your life?
Have you ever noticed that laid back person who it seems that everything in life just comes to him? Do you find yourself being a little too rigid sometimes, even for your own liking?
Instead of trying to be the rock in your life, try to be the water. Flow. It’s a valuable skill to possess and one which will help you in all areas of your life.
Think about it…
Dec 12th
In a world that is over saturated with everything… from music, to the internet, to cars, to you-name-it… How can you make what you do stand out?
My good friend, Universo Pereira, of Red Carpet Rats, and I were discussing this in a round about way the other night… There are a million different companies all trying to sell the same thing, so what is it that makes the various products stand out?
For sure, one of the main things is marketing… how the product is sold and to whom, and all that… But let’s talk about the other main thing… Because marketing can still be duplicated, so what really sets you apart? How you make the product and why.
Reasons for Creation
Why are you creating this product (whatever it may be)? Look at your motivating factors.
Sure, money is going to be in there somewhere, but how high is it on your list? Chances are if it was the first thing out of your mouth, then you might experience some problems standing out from the crowd.
I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with doing something just for the money, providing your happy doing it, and it’s not illegal or harming anyone else… The only problem I see with it, is That’s what everybody else is doing too!
Not to mention, what happens if you don’t end up with the money you wanted? If you’re creating your product for the right reasons, then you’re still happy no matter how much money you have.
Stop chasing the money and let the money come to you
If you don’t break the invisible hold that the desire for money has on you, then you will be a slave to it for the rest of your life. This is why millions of people around the world hate their lives: because they hate their jobs. But they keep going to work so they can have money, because after all, that’s all they are after in the first place and subconsciously they know it and that’s why they can’t respect themselves, and who can like someone they can’t respect?
So how do you do this?
You do something that you would be happy doing, even if you never got rich doing it. And you focus more on giving value and providing service, than on making money.
Money comes as a result of providing value to people’s lives, and it will set you apart from the crowd that is only chasing that quick buck.
Even if your products are exactly the same, the one created with joy and happiness and a desire to give the buyer’s life value will stand out in the sea of consumerism.
True Love is rare, and that’s how you don’t get drowned out!
Think about it…